7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an
atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea
that in any given discussions or situation both parties can arrive at mutually
beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of
others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone
can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t
be your doormat either. You are about other people and you want them to
succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well.
Win-Win is abundant. It is the believe that there’s plenty of success to go
around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s both of us. It’s not a
matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food
for everyone. It’s an all you can eat buffet.
Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of
thinking Win – Win is the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether
or not you are thinking Win-Win or lose-win thinking will cloud your judgment
and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-win will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will
give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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