"When you believe you can-- you can."
Dr. Maxwell Maltz
I agree with this statement because when you are positive about your good actions everything is possible. You can even use this say as a little motivator to help you achieve what ever goal you have in mind. For example say you are trying to change your eating habits to a healthy one if you set your mind to it then of course you can do it.
Showing posts with label habits. Show all posts
Showing posts with label habits. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Thursday, February 28, 2013
How to take on College Studying part 2
How to take on College Studying part
2
Choose where to study depends on two
factors: the environment in which you are best able to concentrate and the type
of work you are planning to do.
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The best places to study have
a good light, a comfortable temperature and enough desk space—usually your dorm
room, your apartment or the library.
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For completing problem sets
or brainstorming possible test question, you may want to study with a group or
at least in a setting where fellow students are available for discussion.
·
When you are reading book
chapters or working on a research paper, you are probably better off in a less
social environment.
Improve Your Study Habits
Here are simple steps you can take
to help you get a handle on studying:
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Have a routine for where and
when you study.
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Choose reasonable and
specific goals that you can accomplish for each study session.
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Do things that are harder or
require more intense thought at your most productive time of the day.
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Take breaks if you need them
so you don’t waste time looking at material but not absorbing it.
·
Get to know students whom you
respect and can study with or contact to ask questions
·
Keep up with the workload and
seek help when you need it.
Thursday, February 21, 2013
7 Habits of Highly Successful Student
7 Habits of Highly Successful Student
Habit
7
Part 2
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
3) Heart: Always do what is right so your heart, your
conscience, will feel peaceful. When you do wrong, your conscience will prick
you and create regretful sensations within your heart. When you do what you honestly
feel, you won’t have any regrets. Your heart is your internal compass— it gives
you direction and discernment. Just like a magnetic compass gives directions,
even true north, your personal compass, your heart, will point you need to
trod.
4) Soul: Study scriptures and other sacred literature
daily. In other words, feed your spirit because your spirit needs spiritual
food just like your physical body needs temporal food to survive. Pondering,
mediating, and reflecting are excellent Soul-Sharpen activities. Try writing
your thoughts, feelings, aspirations, concerns, and decisions in a diary or
journal. Writing helps you focus and make good decisions.
Get into the habit of daily improving your body
(physical Fitness), your mind, your heart, and your soul.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens
7 Habits of Highly
Successful Teens
Habit 6
Habit 6: Synergize
Synergy is achieved when two or more people work together to create
something better than either could alone. Through this habit, teens learn that
it doesn’t have to be your way or my way but rather a better way, a higher way.
Synergy allows teens to value differences and better appreciate others. Synergy
is the reward, the delicious fruit you’ll taste as you get better at living the
other habits, especially at thinking Win-Win and seeking first to understand. Learning
to synergize is like learning to form V formations with others instead of
trying to fly through life solo. You’ll be amazed at how much faster and
farther you’ll go. Synergy doesn’t just happen. It’s a process. You have to get
there. And the foundation of getting there is this: Learn to celebrate differences.
A good band is a great example of synergy. It’s not just the drums, or
the guitar, or the sax, or the vocalist, it’s all of them together that make up
the sound. Each band members brings his or hers strength to the table to create
something better than each could alone. No instrument is more important than
another, just different.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
Friday, February 15, 2013
7 Habits of Highly successful Teens
7 Habits of Highly successful Teens
Habit 5
5. Seek First to Understand, and Then to be
Understood
Because most people don’t listen very well,
one of the great frustrations in life is that many don’t feel understood? This
habit will ensure your teen learns the most important communication skill there
is: active listening.
Why is this habit the key to communication?
It’s because the deepest need of the human heart is to be understood. Everyone
wants to be respected and valued for who they are—a unique, one-of-a-kind,
never to be cloned individual. People won’t expose the soft middles unless that
feels genuine love and understanding. Once they feel it, however, they will
tell you more, than you may want to hear. People don’t care how much you know
until they know how much you care,
Listen with your eyes, heart, and ears. 7
percent of communication is contained in the words we use. The rest comes from
body language (53 percent) and how we say words, or the tone and feeling
reflected in our voice (40 percent). Most people are eager to talk and had
rather talk than listen. We have one mouth and two ears. This means we should
listen twice as much as we talk. We actually learn more while listening rather
than we talk. Learn to listen and listen to learn.
Listen, really listen, for understanding.
Seek first to understand then to be
understood—LISTEN.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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Thursday, February 14, 2013
7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an
atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea
that in any given discussions or situation both parties can arrive at mutually
beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of
others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone
can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t
be your doormat either. You are about other people and you want them to
succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well.
Win-Win is abundant. It is the believe that there’s plenty of success to go
around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s both of us. It’s not a
matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food
for everyone. It’s an all you can eat buffet.
Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of
thinking Win – Win is the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether
or not you are thinking Win-Win or lose-win thinking will cloud your judgment
and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-win will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will
give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Student Success Statement
Student Success Statement
“The only difference between those who have failed and those who have
succeeded lies in the difference of their habits. Good habits are the key to
all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure. Thus, the first law I
will obey, which precedeth all others is—‘I will form good habits and become
their slaves.’”
OG Mandino
I agree with this statement because it clearly tells you that you either
succeed or not succeed based on your own life choices.
When he says he will be a slave of his good habits he means that he will forever choose the right! Therefore we must all always choose the right no matter what happens. For example back in the days when slaves were not illegal, by force had to obey their superiors, well it is the same with our good habits, only that our good habits are our superiors and they are actually good and not bad like those slave owners. We must always look at our good habits in many ways.
When he says he will be a slave of his good habits he means that he will forever choose the right! Therefore we must all always choose the right no matter what happens. For example back in the days when slaves were not illegal, by force had to obey their superiors, well it is the same with our good habits, only that our good habits are our superiors and they are actually good and not bad like those slave owners. We must always look at our good habits in many ways.
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens
Habit 2
Habit 2: Begin with the end in Mind
If teens aren’t clear about where they want
to end up in life, about their values, goals, and what they stand for, they
will wander, waste time, and be tossed to and fro by the opinions of others.
Help your teen create personal mission statement which will act as a road map
and direct and guide his decision-making process.
“Keep your eyes on the prize.” Determine
your desired prize and don’t quit until you have realized the achievement of
your prize. Then set another prize, another goal or desire that you would
really like to achieve. Begin with the achievement of your prize in my mind;
know where you are going.
One prize or goal you definitely need to
establish for yourself is the prize of an honorable graduation from high
school-which you will receive in your diploma honesty and with integrity that
you earned it with perfect honesty.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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Monday, February 11, 2013
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens Habit
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens Habit
(by Sean Covey but modified)
Habit 1: Be proactive.
Being proactive is key to unlocking the
other habits. Help your teen take control and responsibility for her life.
Proactive people understand that they are responsible for their own happiness
or unhappiness. They don’t blame others for their own actions or feelings.
Proactive people realize that the ball in in their court, that they are the
captain of their own ship; that they are in control, control of their
decisions, thoughts, choices, decisions, goals, actions, and priorities.
Proactive people are self-starters; they don’t wait to be told what to do, they
press forward with enthusiasm toward the achievement of their assignments,
their duties, their responsibilities, their obligations. Choosing to do what is
right is a proactive decision. Obey the rules. Obey the law. Obey the coach.
Obey the school policies. Obey your parents. Obey with exactness, and great
things will come to you. Be proactive and take the initiative.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
Thursday, February 7, 2013
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens
7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens
By Sean Covey
For teens, life is not a playground, it’s a jungle. And, being the
parent of a teenager isn’t any walk in the park, either. In his book, the
7Habits of Highly Effective Teens, author Sean Covey attempts to provide “a
compass to help teens and their parents navigate the problems they encounter
daily.”
How will they deal with peer pressure? Motivation? Success or lack
thereof? The life of a teenager is full of tough issues and life-changing
decisions. As a parent, you are responsible to help them learn principles and
ethics that will help them to reach their goals and live a successful life.
While it’s all well and good to tell kids how to live their lives, “teens
watch what you do more than they listen to what you say, “Covey says. So
practice what you preach. Your example
can be very influential.
Covey himself has done well by following a PARENT’S example. His Dad,
Stephen Covey wrote the book The 7 habits of Highly Successful People, which
sold over 15 million copies. Sean’s a chip off the old block, and no slacker.
His own book has rung in a more than respectable 2 million copies sold. Here
are his seven habits, and some ideas for helping your teen understand and apply
them:
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!
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